How I Bring Up my daughter as a responsible mother

In today’s scenario every girl’s parents restricting their daughters to explore the outside world, because they are scared that their daughter would be next Swathi or next Ashifa. That was not their fault. Being a girl, even I thought that the life of being a guy is much easier. Because the restrictions by the parents would be less and the problems which we are facing in the outside world would be less. So here I wanted to put together how I would bring up my daughter as a responsible mother.

If I were a mom of a girl child, I would allow my daughter to explore the outside world, to know the people’s mentality. I will teach her that the freedom is the one which she wanted to do for her improvement. I will teach her that the freedom of her should not hurt others. I will teach her that growing up as a good human being is not just about not going to parties or not getting addicted to alcohol. It is all about how you treat people, your manners and respect.

I will teach her that the male is just an opposite gender and not an evil or something that we couldn’t see, touch or talk. I will teach her that having a friend in opposite gender is not a crime.

I will teach her what is right and what is wrong and I will give her a clear picture of the society. Because even though we gave voice against for many cruelties which were done to a girl, the crime still occurs and I don’t know whether it will change in future or not. I will teach her the good and bad touch which is most essential for the today’s children. So it is very important for every girl to know about the effects of their actions in future.

I will give her right to make her own decisions. But also I will give some suggestions and I will not compel her to take my decision and also I will keep an eye on her decision, I will give her a freedom to choose her career because I know that I taught my daughter very well to take her decisions on her own.

Today’s mothers tied a virtual rope on their daughter and not letting them to go away. They think that was safety and that was true but they are destroying their daughter’s dream. I will also tie a virtual rope on her but the difference is that the rope will be in very big size.

When the life is tough for her, I will stand as a support for her and build a confidence on her instead of taunting her about the bad decisions, or mistakes which she done in past. I want her to be bold enough to face all the problems of her without anyone’s help. I will teach her to stand on her own. I want her to come across all the hurdles which were put in her way.

To be precise of all my above thoughts, I want my daughter to see the colorful part of life even if there exists the dangers that the world might cause. Children’s dreams are more precious. Don’t destroy that. LET HER LIVE FREELY!!!